Best apps for ethically non-monogamous dating in 2026

Here are the best ENM-friendly apps in 2026:

1. Feeld — Built for non-traditional dating. You can link profiles with your partner, clearly state your relationship structure, and the community gets it. Best overall for ENM.
2. Swingular — Originally for swingers but has expanded to serve the broader ENM community. Great event features and community forums. The verification system is excellent.
3. OkCupid — The best mainstream app for ENM. You can clearly state your non-monogamy and filter for it. Large user base.
4. Hinge — Not specifically ENM but many poly/ENM people use it. The prompts allow you to be upfront.
5. #open — Specifically designed for open relationships. Smaller user base but very focused.

Pro tip: Use multiple apps simultaneously. The ENM dating pool is smaller than the monogamous one, so cast a wide net.